Love Idealism Test: Projecting Anime Archetypes onto Real Partners?
For the first date, you hope their outfit is closer to:
Sheldon's iconic plaid shirt + backpack from The Big Bang Theory
Casual wear with subtle geeky touches (e.g., a Marvel T-shirt)
Comfort first, no specific style preference
Specifically ask them to dress like Peter Parker's campus style from Spider-Man
When they comfort you with "Everything's gonna be okay," your first reaction is:
Flustered, reminds you of Chandler's humorous comfort in Friends
Warm, but no specific TV character comes to mind
Unmoved, focus on their physical support (e.g., offering a beer)
Annoyed: "That sounds like a TV line—be more real."
After an argument, you expect a Jon Snow-style "humble apology," but they just text to make up. You:
Disappointed, think "Real relationships lack drama"
Slightly let down, but suggest "Let's talk at our usual board game café"
Don't care, just glad to reconcile regardless of form
Directly say, "I want an in-person talk, like the tense scenes in TV shows."
Seeing them clumsily make a sandwich, you think of:
Walter White's meticulous cooking in Breaking Bad, wishing they were as organized
Find it cute, tease "Need me to teach you 'superhero sandwich-making'?"
Take over: "I'll cook—you choose tonight's esports stream."
Complain: "Why can't you cook like the chefs in MasterChef? "
You hope their daily speaking style is more like:
Din Djarin's High Cold Monotone from The Mandalorian
Natural with occasional Rick and Morty memes (e.g., "Wubba Lubba Dub Dub!")
Practical and direct, e.g., "Pizza or burgers for dinner?"
Specifically ask them to mimic Loki's mischievous tone
They forget your 100-day anniversary. You:
Think of Stefan remembering every date in The Vampire Diaries, feel sad "They don't value me enough"
Remind them: "We can set a reminder in Xbox Calendar next time."
Think anniversaries are just formalities, say "Let's game tonight to celebrate."
Angry: "Even Sheldon from The Big Bang Theory is more attentive! "
When they stutter nervously at Comic-Con, you:
Wish they were as confident as Iron Man in Avengers
Find their realness cute, help them out: "He was asking where the Deadpool actor is."
Ignore, focus on the convention, let them adjust
Dislike: "Why can't you be as poised as Wonder Woman?"
Planning the weekend, you prefer:
Hoping for a retro adventure like Hawkins in Stranger Things
Discussing activities you both enjoy, e.g., convention booths + Fortnite night at home
Doing separate things: they play World of Warcraft, you watch Star Wars docs
Asking them to recreate a Gotham night date from Batman
When they give you a gift, you care more about:
Whether it's as perfect as Stark's geeky gifts (e.g., limited-edition figurines)
The personal touch, like a note: "Knew you love Deadpool—this Funko Pop is so you"
Practicality, e.g., a wrist rest for your mechanical keyboard
Complain: "Why isn't it as epic as the Iron Throne from Game of Thrones? "
You think ideal couple interactions are closer to:
Ross and Rachel's "epic romance" + dramatic misunderstandings from Friends
A real-life equal relationship with occasional Harry Potter cosplay fun
Independent individuals with practical cooperation, like Walt and Skyler in Breaking Bad
Specifically asking them to play the "Marvel perfect partner" role (e.g., Captain America's absolute loyalty)
When they make a mistake, you hope their apology is like:
Jay's serious apology from Modern Family: "I need to apologize for what I said."
A straightforward real-life apology: "Sorry, I was wrong—won't happen again."
Making amends with actions (e.g., upgrading your gaming gear), rarely verbalizing
Complain: "Why can't you apologize as smoothly as Coulson in Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.? "
When sharing The Mandalorian with them, you hope they:
Cosplay as Din Djarin for role-play
Discuss the plot seriously, occasionally mimicking lines
Watch with you but not engage in role-play
Refuse: "Space westerns aren't as realistic as Westworld."
When they're sick, you think of:
Shaun's meticulous care in The Good Doctor, hoping to replicate that devotion
Real-life care: cooking soup, handing meds, teasing "You're like a Walking Dead zombie now"
Remind them to take meds, then return to Call of Duty
Complain: "Why can't you recover as quickly as House?"
Discussing future co-living, you care more about:
Having a Sheldon-Penny "geek-normie" contrast like in The Big Bang Theory
Real-life division of labor (e.g., taking turns cleaning, sharing gaming accounts)
Respecting each other's private space (e.g., separate gaming rooms)
Requiring them to fit Richard's "programmer boyfriend" trope from Silicon Valley
Seeing them interacting with a friend of the opposite sex, you:
Worry they're as "overthink" as Dan in Gossip Girl
Trust their social skills, joke "You two are like the comedy duo from Modern Family"
Don't interfere, focus on your Hearthstone matches
Require them to be like Captain America (absolutely loyal, no ambiguity)
You hope their body type is closer to:
Chris Evans' muscular build as Captain America
Healthy and natural, no superhero body standards
Any size, as long as you enjoy gaming together
Specifically ask them to workout to match Chris Hemsworth's Thor physique
They give you a handmade gift (e.g., a DIY controller charm). You:
Think of Howard's handmade romance in The Big Bang Theory, moved to tears
Feel warm, tweet "Got a custom geek gift—love it!"
Thank them and put it away, preferring game credit cards
Dislike: "It's too rough—nowhere as sleek as Cyberpunk 2077 merch."
During an argument, they say "Let's take a break." Your first reaction is:
Wish they'd immediately comfort you like Joey in Friends, not take a break
Agree to cool down but set a "30-minute Apex Legends team-up to reconcile"
Don't care, take as long as needed, keep browsing Star Wars forums
TV couples don't have a Cold War - why are you doing this? "
You think couples' "special nicknames" should:
Be as sweet as Leonard and Penny's in The Big Bang Theory
Be cute geeky nicknames (e.g., "Mage," "Shooter")
Just use real names, no special titles
Require them to use Rick and Morty couple nicknames (e.g., "My little Rick")
They're upset after losing a job. You:
Wish they'd bounce back like Joe in StartUp, immediately job-hunting
Offer real-life support: "We'll optimize your LinkedIn together—take your time."
Keep distance, let them handle it alone, continue Final Fantasy 14
Complain: "Why can't you bounce back like Tony Stark?"
Planning a wedding, you prefer:
Mimicking Monica and Chandler's romantic church wedding from Friends
A simple real-life wedding with a Lord of the Rings ring exchange touch
A low-key registry, no ceremony
Requiring a full Game of Thrones Red Wedding recreation (non-gory version)
Expressing love to them, you prefer:
Sheldon's "scientific" subtlety from The Big Bang Theory
Direct real-life "I love you" or gifting game skins
Rarely verbalize, show love through shared gaming accounts
Think Spider-Man's "rooftop confession" is more romantic, stage a dramatic scene
Seeing them tangled over small things, you:
Wish they'd decide as decisively as House
Listen patiently: "Your overthinking is like Cartman from South Park"
Interrupt: "Just choose one—don't waste time, I need to raid."
Complain: "Why can't you be as decisive as Ethan Hunt?"
You hope the couples' tacit understanding has reached:
Sheldon and Amy's "scientific soulmate" level from The Big Bang Theory
Real life tactical build through Rainbow Six teamwork
No need for tacit understanding, game independently
Require them to memorize all 'TV show tacit points' (e.g. Friday Mandalorian nights)
They gift you Marvel-themed headphones. You:
Moved they remembered your superhero fandom
Happily use them for gaming immediately
Thank politely, preferring a mechanical keyboard
Frown: "Another joint gift - can you be more creative? "
Discussing future careers, you:
Hope they start their own tech company like Richard in Silicon Valley
Support their real-life career plans, geek-related or not
Don't interfere, as long as you can pay rent and game together
Require them to pursue Elliot's hacker career from Mr. Robot
You think couple "romantic surprises" should:
Be as heartfelt as Joey's cologne gift for Chandler in Friends
Be simple yet geeky, like building your favorite Star Wars Lego set
Not necessary, prefer grinding game raids
Bearing surprises - I want an endgame level drama! "
They're introverted and shy in social settings. You:
Wish they'd open up like Howard in The Big Bang Theory
Find their introversion cute, actively include them in convention cosplay
Respect their pace, attend gaming parties alone
Complain: "Why can't you be as popular as Hawkeye?"
Watching Game of Thrones together, you focus more on:
The main couple's dynamics, hoping to replicate them
The plot, occasionally discussing character relationships
Battle scenes, not the romance
Criticize: "No such complex power romances exist in real life."
Final question: The impact of "TV/superhero perfect partners" on real relationships is:
An ideal template, striving to make your partner fit it
A romantic inspiration, borrowing ideas but accepting real differences
Meaningless, real love needs no template
A childish fantasy, firmly rejecting any association
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