Love Investment Return Quiz: Does Your Effort Equal Relationship Rewards?
How do you usually plan dates with them?
Plan detailed itineraries a week in advance (restaurant reservations, event tickets, transit plans)
Take turns suggesting 3 options, voting together (museum/comedy show/Netflix night)
Let them handle all plans, only saying 'I don’t care'
Skip traditional dates, gaming/binging separately but video chatting occasionally
How do you support them during unemployment?
Cover 100% of expenses, insisting they job hunt full-time (even if they want a break)
Negotiate cost-sharing (e.g., you pay 60%, they use savings for 40%), supporting new career exploration
Complain 'Why are you so lazy?' reducing date spending
Maintain your routine: 'This is your problem, don’t interfere with my Overwatch time'
How do you display your relationship on social media?
Post couple photos/locations daily, liking every post on their feed
1-2 high-quality posts monthly (e.g., festival videos together), keeping personal hobbies visible
Hide relationship status, fearing it will ruin your 'single vibe'
Deactivate social media, refusing to share any private life
How do you react when they have anxiety-induced insomnia?
Stay up all night chatting/walking, skipping work the next day to sleep
Suggest sleep aids (white noise apps, meditation), while maintaining your own sleep schedule
Move to the couch: 'You’re keeping me up too'
Use noise-cancelling headphones to game: 'I can’t help, see a doctor'
Would you adjust your weekly gaming hours for them?
Cut gaming from 20 to 5 hours weekly, joining all their social events
Schedule 'game nights' (Tue/Thu) and 'date nights' (weekends) with clear boundaries
Refuse to change: 'Gaming is my life—take it or leave it'
Demand they game with you, refusing dates otherwise
What’s your gift strategy for anniversaries?
Pawn collectibles for their wishlist luxury item, eating ramen for a week
Handmade gifts + experiences (DIY photo album + pottery class), 15% of monthly disposable income
Buy last-minute Amazon gift card with note 'Spend as you like'
Text 'Happy anniversary,' pretending to forget
How do you act when they travel for work with a colleague?
Demand real-time location sharing, video calls every night
Say 'Stay safe,' ask 'Any interesting stories from the trip?' when they’re back
Sarcastic: 'Had fun with XX, didn’t you?' giving 24-hour silent treatment
Don’t care, focusing on your new game DLC
Would you engage with their passion (e.g., their favorite band/sport)?
Become an expert, knowing more than them (e.g., studying Westerosi history for their GoT love)
Attend 1-2 events (their band’s concert), actively listening to their enthusiasm
Mock their passion: 'Aren’t you too old for this?'
Refuse to engage: 'Can’t we just keep our hobbies separate?'
What’s your first move after a fight?
Write a long email apologizing for everything, even if not your fault
After 24 hours, use 'I statements': 'I felt hurt when...'
Hint at their fault on social media, waiting for them to apologize first
Go drinking, texting 'We need space',
Your view on "personal growth in relationships":
Changing for them proves your love (e.g., becoming extroverted from introverted)
Support maintaining core selves, growing together through compromise
Demand they align with your goals (e.g., you learn coding, they must learn design)
Believe 'relationships shouldn’t change people,' refusing all compromise
Your reaction to their gift of a used gaming console:
Feel your gifts are inadequate, ordering a new Switch immediately
Thank them: 'You remembered my retro gaming love!' returning their favorite used vinyl
Frown: 'This is what you got me? Everyone else gives new stuff'
Resell it: 'I don’t want second-hand items'
How do you handle joint account expenses?
Pay 80%, requiring them to log every expense detail
Split by income ratio (you earn more, pay 60%), reviewing statements monthly
Pay only your share to the cent, refusing to cover their coffee
Refuse a joint account: 'My money is my business'
How do their negative emotions influence your decisions?
Cancel your long-planned gaming tournament to console them
Balance support and self-needs: 'I need to finish this tournament, but we’ll talk afterward'
Blame them for being too emotional: 'Can’t you be less sensitive?'
Activate 'emotional mute,' proceeding with your plans as usual
How do you celebrate their birthday?
Throw a surprise party with all friends, forcing them to socialize all night
Customize based on their preferences (e.g., Marvel marathon at home + homemade cake)
Buy a card, saying 'We’ll celebrate later'
D. Forget, dismissing it with 'I don’t keep track of small things'
Your view on "personal space" in relationships:
Personal space = not loving them, demanding 24/7 location updates
2 'single days' weekly for independent activities, sharing stories before bed
Allow your own space but demand they’re available on call
See 'personal space' as a breakup sign, refusing to discuss it
Your first reaction if they bring up breaking up:
Hire a relationship coach, sending flowers/love letters daily
Ask calmly: 'What issues do you see? Are you open to working on them together?'
Threaten: 'If you leave, I’ll destroy all your collectibles'
Agree immediately: 'I thought so too,' deleting them instantly
Would you learn a second language for them?
Enroll in immersion school, aiming for fluency in 6 months
Learn daily phrases and their local slang, using translation apps for complex talks
Refuse: 'Speak English—It’s the international language'
Think it’s unnecessary: 'We don’t need words to connect'
Would you write a recommendation or share contacts for them?
Use all connections to pave their way, even exaggerating in recommendations
Write honest recommendations, introducing contacts but respecting their choices
Refuse: 'Don’t rely on me for your career'
Demand reciprocity: 'I’ll help if you get me that rare gaming account'
How do you handle value conflicts with them?
Abandon your values to match theirs (e.g., stop recycling because they oppose it)
Hold a 'values workshop' to find compromises (e.g., recycling at home but not nagging them)
Belittle their values: 'Your ideas are naive'
Avoid discussion: 'Let’s not talk about serious stuff'
How do you react if they forget your important game/performance?
Pretend it’s fine, keeping a mental list to bring up in future fights
Clearly express disappointment: 'This game was important to me—I’m sad you forgot'
Yell: 'You don’t care about me at all!'
Indifferent: 'You never understood my hobbies anyway'
Would you set financial goals together?
Transfer all savings to a joint account, letting them manage it entirely
Create a 'shared fund + personal accounts' plan, reviewing progress monthly
Refuse to share finances: 'My money is none of your business'
Demand they cover all expenses: 'You earn more, you should pay'
Your definition of a "successful relationship":
They rely on you completely, unable to function without you
Both maintain independence while being each other’s 'safe haven'
You dominate the relationship, the final say is always yours
No arguments, maintaining superficial harmony at all costs
Would you change your religious/political views for them?
Adopt their beliefs entirely, attending related activities (e.g., church weekly)
Respect their views but keep yours, agreeing to 'disagree agreeably'
Demand they change to match your beliefs/politics
Ban discussions on religion/politics to avoid conflict
How do you react to their suggestion of an open relationship?
Agree immediately, even if uncomfortable
Suggest reading books/consulting experts before deciding together
Explode: 'This is a betrayal of our relationship!'
Indifferent: 'Do whatever, I don’t care'
How do you handle their ex’s contact?
Demand they delete all ex’s contacts, checking their phone regularly
Trust their boundaries, listening only when they bring it up
Secretly message their ex, warning them to stay away
See 'exes as history,' never caring about them
Would you attend couples therapy with them?
Attend regularly even if fine, pursuing 'perfect relationship'
Open to therapy as a solution when conflicts are unresolvable
Refuse: 'This is between us—outsiders have no say'
Mock them: 'You need therapy? So weak'
Your view on "sacrifice in relationships":
More sacrifice = deeper love (e.g., moving cities, quitting high-paying jobs)
Moderate sacrifice is necessary but not losing core self (e.g., adjusting hours but not career goals)
Sacrifice is for losers—real love needs no compromise
Only accept their sacrifice, never compromising yourself
How do you respond when they support your personal goals?
Take it for granted, never expressing gratitude
Thank them explicitly and look for ways to support their goals
Doubt their motives: 'Why are you supporting me? What’s your agenda?'
Refuse their help: 'I can handle my own business'
Would you sign a "relationship contract" (chores, finances, etc.)?
Think contracts kill romance, opposing them strongly
Open to negotiation, believing clear rules reduce conflicts
Demand they sign your version without changes
Indifferent, it doesn’t matter either way
Final question: A healthy relationship is like:
Vine & tree—one depends on the other to grow
Two side-by-side trees—roots intertwined but growing independently
Boxing match—someone has to win
Parallel train tracks—forever separate
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